I’ve been there too – the frustrating cycle of applying, interviewing, and getting rejected despite feeling confident in my skills. It’s a tough spot to be in, especially when it feels like there’s always another mountain to climb.
As a mid-level developer with 4 years of experience, I thought I had a solid foundation. But after months of interviewing, I started to doubt my abilities. Was I really cut out for this industry? Should I look for a role with a less punishing interview process?
If you’re going through a similar struggle, know that you’re not alone. Here are some hard-won lessons I’ve learned about staying mentally resilient and improving technically.
Break the Prep into Smaller Chunks
It’s overwhelming to think about all the areas you need to prep for – LeetCode, debugging, testing, API/data manipulation, system design. Instead, focus on one area at a time. Master one, then move on to the next.
Practice Under Pressure
Simulation is key. Practice coding under timed conditions to simulate the pressure of a real interview. This will help you think on your feet and articulate your thought process better.
Don’t Be Too Hard on Yourself
Rejection is a normal part of the process. Remember that it’s not a reflection of your worth as a developer or a person. Take breaks when you need to, and don’t be afraid to pivot into other roles if that’s what you need.
Seek Out Community Support
Join online communities, attend meetups, or find a study buddy. Having a support system can make all the difference in staying motivated and accountable.
Focus on Progress, Not Perfection
It’s okay to not be perfect. Focus on progress, not perfection. Celebrate small wins, and don’t be too hard on yourself when you don’t meet your own expectations.
Remember, getting rejected doesn’t define your worth as a developer. Keep pushing forward, and eventually, you’ll land that interview that clicks.
If you’re struggling like I was, know that you’re not alone. Take it one step at a time, and don’t give up on your dreams.